The Beautiful Pain of Letting Go

Recently I had a change in my life; I should clarify....my S/L. I decided to stop settling for half hearted, one sided friendships, and took the scary leap into revamping, prioritizing and just letting go.

Initially I felt sick in my decision, but had the fortitude and foresight to make a little list before hand of all the pros and cons of my decision. I think all too often we get into relationships with people taking on their misery. 

Losing purpose and ourselves in a deep abyss of darkness that is not even ours. Soon you find yourself resenting logging in, tensing at the sound of the IM ding praying it is not "whatserface" ready to sap you of your emotional life force and inner joy.

At some point the realization that some people are just fundamentally and emotional broken seeps in. Nothing you do or say will help or appease them, but their all to willing to make you the whipping board for their rage and anguish. 

Do you stay and suffer in silence in what is suppose to be a happy an enjoyable break from "real-life" issues or do you dig in deep, with self preservation and just let go?

Honestly no one can answer that question but the person who finds themselves in this situation. 

I do know that in the end, change can only happen when the pain of fighting for something is greater than the fear of the unknown in letting go.

The Look

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H.E.D. Rolled Up Capri Fat-Pack

[BUKKA]border-shirt

fri. - Dream.Booties

fri. - Loop.Jewelry

**Dura-Boys&Girls**13

Rain on Me

And when it rains on your parade, 

look up rather than down. 

Without the rain, there would be no rainbow. 

-Gilbert K. Chesterton

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone. 

I can see all obstacles in my way. 

-Johnny Nash

If you think it's going to rain, it will.

 -Clint Eastwood

The Look

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Ema's Secret- Rainy Dress in Black

::je suis...naive::Nails::

[ glow ] studio - wild animals bracelet 

Wives & Mistresses

In most womens lives they will play the part of mistress and wife willingly or not. Often times  the choice for the roles are not given to the woman in question, as her partner has forced her into said positions by omission of truths. 

=Zenith= Lorena Krasiki in Beige

I have without any shame played both, 

I have been successful at both, not that I am bragging. 

Knowing the difference between the two roles, 

is key to a either parties success or failure.

(DIMH2-Gift) For Female

What those differences are....

well that is for me to know and you to find out. 

Happy Learning.............. 

XoXo Dani4G

The Look

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Wifey Look One

=Zenith= Lorena (DIMH2-Gift) For Females 

(The hunt runs from March 14th - april 11th)

Mistress Look Two

=Zenith= Lorena Krasiki in Beige

LoTD: Flowers in Spring

It is often said that women; 

are only truly happy ONLY if they have 

a man in their life.

But I disagree, women are fickle creatures, 

ever changing, growing and striving

 to be all that we can be. 

These things

become driving forces that catapults  us to greatness

 glorifying that inner joy & peace

often sought day-to-day by many.

The one thing that I can say, 

about a man being in a woman's life; 

he accents the beauty that already lies there. 

Thus her being in love radiates out

&

 her inner beauty blossoms like  flowers in spring. 

The Look

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-Collect*- Check Halter Dress

-Side Note: The pants on the dress makes your ankles look like pants, I sent a note to the creator Yurin Wirefly about the issue so maybe it will get corrected *fingers crossed*